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Here’s seven options you could try: It’s great to hang out with your friends, but (as a general rule) your friends are not going to have sex with you.To meet guys who you might want to date, you are going to have to talk to people that you don’t know.According to the singles whom Allen has encountered, boomers generally play by far different dating rules than young, 20-something daters."I spoke with a young man in his early to mid-20s who told me that if he didn't have sex on the first or second night, he'd move on to the next person," she recalls.Concern about STDs and unwanted pregnancies can help create sexual boundaries, believes Mc Clary.If, for instance, you're on the fence about whether or not to take sexual activity to the next level, a healthy dose of fear may cause you to pause, particularly if you're not prepared to take the necessary precautions.
So, too, does an up-front conversation about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
"It depends on how rapidly or slowly things progress." Joan Allen, a relationship expert, finds that baby boomers are far more likely to wait to have sex than younger daters.
"Especially among older people who went through the sexual revolution, with maturity they realize there are emotional consequences for getting involved in a sexual relationship," says Allen, author of Celebrating Single and Getting Love Right: From Stalemate to Soulmate.
Well, actually meeting guys is relatively easy if all you’re looking for is a quick hook up — your local sauna or any location-based dating app will give you plenty of options to get your rocks off.
But what if you want more than a quick, anonymous encounter? Get to know their name, how they drink their coffee, or which side of the bed they sleep on?