The plain and simple reason is because I don't know how.
During high school the girlfriends that I had were always more aggressive in getting what they wanted (me), so I never truly learned how to go for a woman.
Another great way to meet people would be to join social/activity groups (e.g., Meetup.com) with people who have shared interests, like Sci-Fi or fine cuisine.
Organized social activities present less formal networking opportunities, and the pressure to “impress” is lower – you just hang out with others and enjoy activities you like.
Developing intimate relationships is indeed very challenging, and despite all the self-help books and opinions out there, there is no true “formula” to make it work.
As a divorced, single mom who had no idea how to jump back into the dating game, I have found some success with online dating.I just want to understand what to do when I want to get intimate with someone and how to do it. If anyone can give me personal examples of what events or circumstances as a woman that made you say I want to get physically intimate with this man, I would be very grateful.Until then, I will keep trying, and God knows I do every day. A: I am sorry to hear that you have been struggling with this.A great number of factors can drive initial attraction, such as physical attractiveness.From the limited information provided above, it sounds like you are concerned about your short stature and whether women are less than honest about their preferences. For example, taller men are perceived as having more status, leadership qualities, and fearlessness.